"Who is My Neighbor?"

Kramer's 1!
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Our son turned one this past week. Unlike many extravagant celebrations I’ve seen or been aware of in the past for first birthdays, this one was very inauspicious. Most of our friends were out of town for the holidays and the one couple who wasn’t had a sick four month old on their hands and had to cancel.

The day of his birthday arrived. JB baked a birthday cake and we had some Elmo plates and hats on hand for the occasion. Undaunted by the lack of guests, JB & I decided to go knock on the door of two of our neighbor’s houses and invite them. Mind you, this was at 5:00 and we told them to come over at 6:30! One couple is in their 70’s and the wife suffers from mild dementia. The other couple is our age and they have a 5 month old little girl.

To my surprise they both accepted the invitation with little to no hesitation! At 6:30ish the older couple arrived with a card (“for your newborn baby” it read, ha!) that had some money in it. They donned the Elmo hats and settled in for the party. Soon thereafter the younger couple arrived with homemade cookies and explained that the husband had been late in coming home due to a traffic accident which he had to detour around.

It was a very rich evening full of laughter, story telling, and shared secrets of parenting. I sat at the head of the table thoroughly enjoying the moment when I became aware of just how special all of this really was. That morning there was no indication that such a scene would be playing itself out around our dining room table. It was just such a perfect moment with all the magic of serendipity and profoundness of providence.

When they all left JB and I looked at each other like, “what just happened here?” We chided ourselves for not having invited them over sooner. It seemed such a shame that we’d lived here for over 3 years and that was the first time either couple had been in our home. We made a promise to ourselves that with our next move we will invite the neighbors over sooner and get to know them better.

Thinking about this phenomenon the next day it struck me that it reminded me of the parable of the wedding feast that Jesus told. How those invited did not come to the party. How the King sent his servants “out into the highways” to invite those they found there. It also reminded me of the young lawyer who tested Jesus with the question,“And who is my neighbor?” to justify himself and Jesus replied with the parable of the good Samaritan.